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Tips for group houses

Overall

  • Weekly house dinner
  • Dishwasher norms, no dishes in the sink
  • norm: Clean up common spaces
  • idea: Chore Board
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  • Parties
  • Cleaners -- could try biweekly. We do cleaners after
  • Slack/Discord
  • Door unlocked?

Kitchen stuff

  • Department of teahouse efficiencies: color sticker, label every item in the fridge
  • During house dinner, clean out anything that's been more than a week
  • put tape on every item, people remove tape if they use it
  • lost & found section

How to decide to have an event?

  • What happens if some people want to have people over; how much is it the norm to interact, is everyone in the house invited by default; if someone's having an event, norms around how much of the house to take up? noise? how quickly you clean up after.

Home improvement

  • Spend more time communally on improving basement?
  • idea: Houseathon, where everyone works on house stuff
  • plan for 4th floor: get a pullout couch/bed, be more for cozy & guest room
  • Divide the basement into 2? Put up dividers

Shopping

  • Costco membership -- worse than walmart?
  • Crawlspace with lots of tissues, put down lots of stuff in the basement. Stock up
  • Shelves that people have for their own food.
  • Rachel Shu gets a lot of shelving & storage -- also make it feel good to go down
  • Weird thing we do: person who goes shopping, gets it for free
  • Why not order grocery delivery. Recurring amazon
  • idea: Whiteboard grocery shopping list

Buy-in

  • Alexandra: can run a house if I had complete control, figure it out, would be fine. But harder without
  • Group house: everyone has some control & responsibility, so hard to do things -- have to get buy in, people disagree, go away, have to wait, nothing gets done.
  • (Weekly dinners help!)
  • Meta-norm: purchases under $400-500, you don't need permission, just buy it and split the cost. Could set a lower amount ($100). People in the house have different prefs
  • House manager might be good for making decisions
  • Common house fee + per room house fee, depending on preferences
  • Wrena wanted this, but people had nonoverlapping preferences.

Sharing locations with each other on Google Maps

  • Bit intimate but very good

Splitwise!!

Hotel guests

  • Airtable form & calendar for stays
  • If someone stays in your room, they should pay for it, $50/mo ([a] should raise that)
  • [kate] Having 5 people using your bathroom is unpleasant

Norms of a communal house

  • Get bought in on the level of communal-ness
  • Alexandra: Communication is challenging, people aren't bought in enough
  • Katheryn: Send out google docs, and people don't read them. Cleaning, bills, everett
  • idea: house trip, helps with this
  • Good to know how long people will be around in the house
  • eg Katheryn plans on staying in DC for several years, Alexandra might move out with Thomas

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